Do you make decisions and step forward based on other people’s belief systems or do you really have a true understanding of who you are?
My gift is taking someone that has been defined for years and years by the people in their life and not by themselves and helping them recognize who they truly are.
I’ve heard we grow the most when we’re in pain…. I found that to be true, as long as you don’t dwell in it.
I grew up hiding my love of hypnosis and my interest in spirituality from my mom because of the strict religious background I had when growing up. Just after I turned twenty I was so excited to find out I was pregnant and decided to get married because that was what was expected by our families. I thought this was what I wanted but I was wrong. That wasn’t what I wanted at all. We had a beautiful baby girl. A few years later I decided to make a fresh start and we divorced.
About a year later I met and fell in love with the man of my dreams. We had a bouncing baby boy. About eleven years later I found I wasn’t happy with our relationship and wanted to separate. I had felt at the time that I had already tried everything to fix our relationship and it just wasn’t working. My decision brought so much pain to myself, my family and I really hurt my children.
My son’s dad & I were living apart and trying to work on things. Circumstances caused us to decide to move back in together even though we still hadn’t healed. We were working on our relationship a little and ignoring it a lot. We were back together for a year and he had decided our relationship wasn’t working and he left me.
This is where the self-work began. I was so confused, I thought I knew what I was doing, but I was wrong. I couldn’t even look myself in the mirror and tell myself I was a good person or even that I liked myself without going into hysterics. I couldn’t get the words out. I started asking myself the tough questions like why I made the decisions I made? I also did a lot of blaming, well we both did. The healing began when I took the 28-day Soul Coaching Program which was amazing. It guided me to find the healing that I needed. It took me years and I had people that helped me face my shadows to begin healing of myself and our relationship.
And In case you are wondering, yes, we are together again. This will be our 20th year anniversary. Yes, we even count the time we were apart because neither one of us could ever actually let the other one go.
I soon became a Reiki Master and learned how to do Shamanic Journeying. I was in emotional pain but now with all the work I was doing I could look in the mirror and tell myself not only “I like you, you are a good person” I could also say, “I love you”.
I continued my quest for fulfilling my soul and became certified in NLP, hypnosis, EFT & Coaching. I am continuing my journey in finding my authentic self, there is always more to uncover. I would be so grateful to help you through the transition of finding the authentic you.
Appointments are currently set up on my Facebook page @soulfulessencenwellbeing